
One of the best things to happen to me this year has been iSight. My mom recently bought a Mac laptop at my request. She was going to buy the thing anyway, but needed me to recommend PC or Mac. My dad’s got a PC which he totes to and from work. So when it came time to get mom online and using email, browsing the web and, perhaps one day even designing a quilt pattern with her new computer, to me the answer was obvious: buy a Mac.
What I didn’t know was how my mom having a Mac would factor into me and my brother communicating more as well. You see, my brother talks to my mom once a week. I talk to my mom once a week. So vicariously through her, we talk to each other once a week as well. I find out about his kids from my mom. He finds out about my meanderings similarly. He doesn’t use flickr, even though he has a digital camera. He never emails, even though he uses it all the time for work. And he’s reluctant to talk on the phone because he has pizzamanophobia. One thing he does have though, is a Mac.
So last month, as my parents departed for Chicago for one of their long weekends with the grandkids, Noel and Sara, I asked my mom to go to the Apple store and buy an iSight for my brother. That way on Sunday we could have a video conference while they were there and we’d all see each other and talk like we were in the same room. They did. And we did. And you know what? It was marvelous.
My mom loved it so much, she bought an iSight for herself when she got home. The next weekend we were teleconferencing between San Diego, Columbus and Chicago. Last weekend we missed a call due to Noel and the kids traveling to the other Grandparents in Michigan. And by miss I mean miss. We really enjoy our Sunday chats. For the first time ever, Mia is interested in talking to her aunt and uncle in far-away San Diego. She stops and makes faces at the screen, tells me about the museums, her classes, and even showed me the doll we sent her for her birthday last month. And it being video means that much more. Mom and Dad can see my new facial hair experiment. Noel took us on a tour of his new house (untethering the laptop and going wireless through the house). We can spot dad nodding off. The format is every bit as important as the circumstance.